Life is tough. I bet you would all agree that there was a time where you just could not believe that it was happening to you.. probably again. That's how I feel all the time. But, guess what? I have come to a conclusion that EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON!
People are hurt for a reason, people are stranded for a reason, people fall for a reason, people are mean for a reason, happy for a reason, fat for a reason (they just couldn't say no, lol) and the list can continue. These things happen because we are supposed to learn from them.
This makes me think about a movie called Pleasantville. Anyone ever saw it? If no, it was a movie that pretty much was set in a time period (i forget which one) where everything was easy, simple, non-emotional and painless. There was only one road, one color (gray) one emotion (happy).. and things in that nature. No one felt anything. They did not even have books! It was insane. Throughout the movie, a brother and sister came and changed it up and their world was never the same. They had a fire for the first time, sex for the first time, missed a basketball shot (yup, it was that insane) and all because it NEEDED to happen.
Things NEED to happen! If they didn't, how will be ever learn. How will we fail? I mean, failure is the root to all success! At times, sure, it does hurt, but in the long run.. years from now.. one will think back and say 'Hey, I'm glad that happened to me! (SIKE!, just kidding).
There have been plenty of things that have happened to me and I am still the most optismtic person one can ever meet. In fact, you would never even think some of things that have happened to me... It's great because I did not let it over power me and keep me from excelling. It's a great thing! Being able to remain strong and on your own two feet. (I know I am rambling, but SO WHAT!)
But, all in all... things happen for a reason.. SO don't cry over spilled milk!
See ya!
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Tamasia J. University! (TJU)
If I had a university, I am really not sure of what I would have. However, thinking of all the things I want in a university, I might as well just create that. So... Let's see...
I'll start with the size of the university. Medium sized seems fairly nice. A larger place means more opportunities.
Food: Either more than one cafeteria or one that has many options. Options such as, healthy foods, fast foods, grilled, Deli, international cuisine. I would be great to have connections with different restaurants and have them on campus; such as Starbucks, Smoothie King, and maybe a Pizza place. I'm not really big on McDonalds. Wings are great too! Possibly even a Chipotle. Looks like students will gain the FRESHMAN 15 on my campus!
Meal Plans will be awarded by the semester, not the week. As long as one does not go over their amount, they can eat as much as they want!
Academics: Every school cannot be strong in all areas, but I do not want it to be a place where students feel left out. So, if we have a particular major, we, TJU will have the connections, networks, honor societies, active clubs (hopefully, more likely than not) and special events for each particular area of study: Sciences, Education, English, Communication, Business, etc. Each academic area will have it's own building, with it's own facilities, academic advisers and professors. Professors will not be advisers. An adviser is just what they are called. They are there to ADVISE the students.
Advising: Students are required to meet with the adviser. Whether it's an email, or phone call or face-to-face. Advisers need to know what is going on with their students!
Career Placement: Each academic major will it's own set of career placement advisers. Seniors will be required to meet with the senior placement adviser sometime in the first semester. This meeting is to see where the student is and where they plan to be next year and can recieve the appropriate assistance. TJU will host job-fairs and seminars for resume assitance and Mock Interviews.
Now for the fun stuff, TJU will also be a place that is very fun!
Housing: Students must live on campus at least two years. When it comes to building a community, meetings will be held twice a semester asking students want they want to see happen in their residential hall.
- Air Conditioning
-Cable TV
Campus life: TJU is never dead on weekends! Students love to stick around. With out on-campus movie theather and bowling alley, who would want to leave? On the weekend, stop by the Union to hang out and play poll or talk and dance with some of the students. Head to the bowling alley for late-night bowling! Or, catch a movie with friends at the theather! All the popcorn you can eat!
Clubs and Organizations: TJU-Gov, Sororoties and Fraternities, TJU-Dancers, Cultural clubs - Chinese Student Alliance, Black Student Union, Jewish Girls Unite (you name it!) anything can be done at TJU! Future Teachers of American, American Marketing Association, Finance club, psychology club, future doctors, Basketball, Football, Cheerleading, marching Band, Tennis, ROTC, Robicts, TJU-ON AIR... so many things to name!
Financial aid: people actually know what they are doing! Notices are sent out when bills have not been paid. Phone calls are made ahead of time.
Scholarships: Students can be awarded full-scholarships for academics and sports as long as they maintain a 3.0. Students can also be awarded Merit and need based aid. Scholarships are determined by character, leadership ability, acadmics and personal interview. Of course, grades are important, too!
MOST IMPORTANTLY! The President of TJU will be a known face on campus. The President will be a person who is more than the 'President'.. He or she may not know everyone by face, but at least they will be able to say they have some kind of positive experience with her and can put a name with a face.
I'll start with the size of the university. Medium sized seems fairly nice. A larger place means more opportunities.
Food: Either more than one cafeteria or one that has many options. Options such as, healthy foods, fast foods, grilled, Deli, international cuisine. I would be great to have connections with different restaurants and have them on campus; such as Starbucks, Smoothie King, and maybe a Pizza place. I'm not really big on McDonalds. Wings are great too! Possibly even a Chipotle. Looks like students will gain the FRESHMAN 15 on my campus!
Meal Plans will be awarded by the semester, not the week. As long as one does not go over their amount, they can eat as much as they want!
Academics: Every school cannot be strong in all areas, but I do not want it to be a place where students feel left out. So, if we have a particular major, we, TJU will have the connections, networks, honor societies, active clubs (hopefully, more likely than not) and special events for each particular area of study: Sciences, Education, English, Communication, Business, etc. Each academic area will have it's own building, with it's own facilities, academic advisers and professors. Professors will not be advisers. An adviser is just what they are called. They are there to ADVISE the students.
Advising: Students are required to meet with the adviser. Whether it's an email, or phone call or face-to-face. Advisers need to know what is going on with their students!
Career Placement: Each academic major will it's own set of career placement advisers. Seniors will be required to meet with the senior placement adviser sometime in the first semester. This meeting is to see where the student is and where they plan to be next year and can recieve the appropriate assistance. TJU will host job-fairs and seminars for resume assitance and Mock Interviews.
Now for the fun stuff, TJU will also be a place that is very fun!
Housing: Students must live on campus at least two years. When it comes to building a community, meetings will be held twice a semester asking students want they want to see happen in their residential hall.
- Air Conditioning
-Cable TV
Campus life: TJU is never dead on weekends! Students love to stick around. With out on-campus movie theather and bowling alley, who would want to leave? On the weekend, stop by the Union to hang out and play poll or talk and dance with some of the students. Head to the bowling alley for late-night bowling! Or, catch a movie with friends at the theather! All the popcorn you can eat!
Clubs and Organizations: TJU-Gov, Sororoties and Fraternities, TJU-Dancers, Cultural clubs - Chinese Student Alliance, Black Student Union, Jewish Girls Unite (you name it!) anything can be done at TJU! Future Teachers of American, American Marketing Association, Finance club, psychology club, future doctors, Basketball, Football, Cheerleading, marching Band, Tennis, ROTC, Robicts, TJU-ON AIR... so many things to name!
Financial aid: people actually know what they are doing! Notices are sent out when bills have not been paid. Phone calls are made ahead of time.
Scholarships: Students can be awarded full-scholarships for academics and sports as long as they maintain a 3.0. Students can also be awarded Merit and need based aid. Scholarships are determined by character, leadership ability, acadmics and personal interview. Of course, grades are important, too!
MOST IMPORTANTLY! The President of TJU will be a known face on campus. The President will be a person who is more than the 'President'.. He or she may not know everyone by face, but at least they will be able to say they have some kind of positive experience with her and can put a name with a face.
Sunday, February 15, 2009
Expectations placed on RA's: Reality? or Fantasy?
Students, faculty and administrative staff expect RA's to be perfect. Perfect in this case means always going to class, in their rooms studying, being available to their residents at any time, not going to parties... things in that nature. When, in fact RA's are growing teenagers (or adults) just like the rest of us who attend college. These are more unrealistic only because RA's are people and simply put, everyone has their day when they do not feel like going to a class, or just want to let lose and have fun. Since an RA has this position, they should be able know their limitations
On a more positive note, RA's are expected to follow the rules and act as a role model to others, be knowledgeable of campus rules ad events, be a good listener, offer advice, treat people with respect, be polite and courteous, among many other things. - These things are more realisitic.
When one is in a high position, more is always expected of them. People feel as though since they have this 'title' a certain level of behavior should be displayed. As an RA, it's about knowing yourself and your responsibilities. Remembering that no matter what time of day, you are always a representation of Chatham University and that means acting in a certain manner. As far as the expectations, it shouldn't be much of a problem. Besides, as long as everything is getting done to the best of my ability and on-time, everything is fine. Being a student, a student leader, an RA, trying to have a social life and just survive is A LOT! Taking a break once in a while never hurts...
On a more positive note, RA's are expected to follow the rules and act as a role model to others, be knowledgeable of campus rules ad events, be a good listener, offer advice, treat people with respect, be polite and courteous, among many other things. - These things are more realisitic.
When one is in a high position, more is always expected of them. People feel as though since they have this 'title' a certain level of behavior should be displayed. As an RA, it's about knowing yourself and your responsibilities. Remembering that no matter what time of day, you are always a representation of Chatham University and that means acting in a certain manner. As far as the expectations, it shouldn't be much of a problem. Besides, as long as everything is getting done to the best of my ability and on-time, everything is fine. Being a student, a student leader, an RA, trying to have a social life and just survive is A LOT! Taking a break once in a while never hurts...
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