Everything Happens for a REASON!

Life is tough. I bet you would all agree that there was a time where you just could not believe that it was happening to you.. probably again. That's how I feel all the time. But, guess what? I have come to a conclusion that EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON!

People are hurt for a reason, people are stranded for a reason, people fall for a reason, people are mean for a reason, happy for a reason, fat for a reason (they just couldn't say no, lol) and the list can continue. These things happen because we are supposed to learn from them.

This makes me think about a movie called Pleasantville. Anyone ever saw it? If no, it was a movie that pretty much was set in a time period (i forget which one) where everything was easy, simple, non-emotional and painless. There was only one road, one color (gray) one emotion (happy).. and things in that nature. No one felt anything. They did not even have books! It was insane. Throughout the movie, a brother and sister came and changed it up and their world was never the same. They had a fire for the first time, sex for the first time, missed a basketball shot (yup, it was that insane) and all because it NEEDED to happen.

Things NEED to happen! If they didn't, how will be ever learn. How will we fail? I mean, failure is the root to all success! At times, sure, it does hurt, but in the long run.. years from now.. one will think back and say 'Hey, I'm glad that happened to me! (SIKE!, just kidding).

There have been plenty of things that have happened to me and I am still the most optismtic person one can ever meet. In fact, you would never even think some of things that have happened to me... It's great because I did not let it over power me and keep me from excelling. It's a great thing! Being able to remain strong and on your own two feet. (I know I am rambling, but SO WHAT!)

But, all in all... things happen for a reason.. SO don't cry over spilled milk!

See ya!